I spent 23 years trying to figure out "the romantic love thing"… You may say, how is that possible, how old are you?. The answer is: I am 35, and this started when I was 12!
I had such a rush to find true love. I couldn't wait to stop being a kid so I could experience butterflies in my stomach and a beautiful love story.
So I did everything to get it right. I tried to be more relaxed, likeable, skinnier, prettier, smarter, detached, attached, tougher, more open-minded, independent, but no wait interdepend is better, sexier, but that was not good enough.
So, I went down the route of becoming more feminine, more spiritual, superwoman but nurturing (otherwise is too masculine), the perfect balance between yin and yang, love myself so I don't need anyone, and etc.… you get the point!
And guess what?! My soulmate was not coming. In fact, the complete opposite, if you know what I mean
Then I heard the phrase: "when you don't feel that you are enough, nothing will ever be enough".
This "not enough" and I add "therefore not worthy" was not only present with love, but with everything else in my life. As Mrs Oprah says: "The way you do one thing, is the way you do EVERYTHING!"
So… How did I get past it?
I stopped trying so damn hard!!!
Instead, I made a point of re-wiring in my brain the Truth that:
"I AM ENOUGH AND WORTHY RIGHT IN THIS MOMENT"
I also started living more from the ease-ness of my heart than from the complexity of my mind.
Sounds easier said than done, right?
It's true, it's not easy, but it's possible.
This is a practice and lifestyle. I still forget that I am enough and worthy, but I have developed the skill to remember ASAP.
This is the secret!
So, what happened with the "romantic love thing".
Well.. about 2 and half years ago, a bright, loving soul came into my life. It has been a beautiful love journey, and I am beyond grateful.
But please don't get me wrong… when I met him:
This, my friend, is the secret not so secret!
Now, I have some questions for you:
Are you investing your energy in remembering what is Real?
Do you have the tools to go back to Truth ASAP?
If you would like to have some guidance and support in this matter and in your journey, contact me HERE I would be an honour to do so.
Have a blessed week,
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